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Its Too Late?
The truth is as long as you are still breathing it’s NEVER too late to make the decision to live an abstinent lifestyle. Here are some quick tips to help you on your new path:
1) Make the decision to STOP having sex. Sounds simple but you’d be surprised at how many people try to wean themselves off!
2)Tell the other person how you feel. Note: If they really love you they would respect your decision and support you, not try to talk you out of it!
3)Be prepared to let go of the relationship. NOTE: This decision really reveals what type of relationship you truly had as sex can cloud your view of the depth and substance of the relationship. Many times you realize all you had was physical.
4)Get with others who share your beliefs and support your decisions. You may have to develop new friendships.
5)Set up boundaries if you both agree to continue the relationship. Watching how late you talk on the phone, sexually explicit TV shows and movies, ie late night HBO, and not being alone together late at night (Side bar: especially when your sleepy and you both have the sexy “frog voice” going on) can help avoid MAJOR pitfalls. You have to guard your desire to stay abstinent like you would your wallet; and YOUR goodies are a LOT more valuable!!